Alternative Wedding Ideas for Non-Traditional Couples

We live in a very different age to our parents. If someone had suggested to them while they were planning their big day, ‘have you thought about holding your wedding ceremony in a brewery?’, they’d probably think the other person was crazy. But nowadays, putting together a more unconventional wedding is almost the norm. For couples, if they don’t have at least two to three pinned tabs featuring alternative wedding ideas, they’re the odd ones out! Uniqueness and creativity is key for modern celebrations, and the desire to be different has never been greater.

The pandemic has certainly played its part in fuelling the fire for unique wedding ideas. During the two or so years we were confined to our homes, couples were feverishly wedding planning one of a kind ways they could celebrate their nuptials. While also coming to terms with the fact that a traditional, large family wedding was now, maybe, not what they actually want. And actually, they’d prefer an outdoor wedding, with live music, and food trucks and friends. Their best friends, close friends, after work drink friends. The kind of wedding guests you actually want to spend time with. Unlike the relatives you haven’t seen for years, or the plus-ones you don’t even know. No, post-pandemic engaged couples would like to celebrate, and relax on their wedding day, surrounded by the people they missed the most over the last two years.

Today, we’re going to explore some of our favourite alternative wedding ideas and wedding reception themes that we think non-traditional couples will love. They’ll be a little something for everyone, regardless of your budget, taste, or location. Unique wedding ideas that will put a new twist on what a wedding ceremony and reception should look like. Who needs a wedding planner when you’ve got us right!

Even those guys, who practically lived in pyjamas 24/7 during the pandemic, still looked forward to getting dressed up and going out once everything was over. But the traditional look for a bride and groom is not how everyone imagines ‘dressed up’ should look. And besides, if the pandemic has taught us anything, it’s that comfort is key, and a wedding dress is rarely comfy. Therefore, if you prefer not to wear white, or even wear a bridal gown, then don’t.

Ditch the traditional wedding attire, and wear something that feels like you. It can still be smart. Maybe a jumpsuit, or a wedding suit, or even separates! A cosy jumper and a floaty skirt is such a cool look. Whatever it is, go with what makes you feel you.

Have you noticed that your weekend diary is looking a little full?

Weekend weddings are now hard to book for many engaged couples looking to tie the knot this year. So, why not, say hello to a Thursday celebration? Less money, less hassle, quieter, and you’ll know who really wants to come to your wedding! Those people willing to use up their work holidays to see you say your wedding vows, those guys really love you!

A cocktail reception with canapés is a lovely way to celebrate your nuptials. Without the formality of a sit-down meal. It may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but as long as the snacks on trays are constantly floating about. And guests do not need to linger by the kitchen door just to grab a morsel of food. You should see no problems. And in fact, it’s a nice way for everyone to catch up, freely, without feeling like they should stick to their allocated position.

You could go one step further, and upgrade the whole affair with some unique cocktails created for the evening reception. Drinks that could be paired with the canapés, or maybe signature cocktails that represent significant times in your shared life. A chilled Caipirinha to represent that hot air balloon ride you took over Rio de Janiero, maybe. Or a G&T with a twist, to remind you of your London engagement.

Attempt to think like a wedding planner, and continually try to add extra meaning to every moment.

Have you ever been in the taxi home after a particularly fun wedding and wondered, ‘what was that song they played after the first dance?’ Well, your guests will have no need to wonder! Because in their goodie bag, they’ll have a hand-picked, personally burned CD or USB with all your big day bangers on. The ideal way to remind loved ones of your special day, even years down the line, when they pop that soundtrack on.

You can’t, however, just pop a CD-R in amongst the bottle of Bailey’s and their piece of wedding cake. It needs to be presented in a fun way, that marks the occasion. We love these CD covers on Etsy for example, as they’re so easy to customise. Such an effortless way to create a personalised wedding favours.

If you’re not marrying for the first time, you may be inheriting some little ones as part of the bargain. How ever you feel about this situation, and however much love you’ve got for your partners’ children. It can be hard on kids to feel a part of a new, blended family. Therefore, why not dedicate your unity ceremony, or elopement to each other, and the kids.

Give your future step-children a special part in the ceremony, and gift them the feeling of being in a dream team.

Just imagine your friends faces when they realise the engagement party they’ve turned up to, is actually your wedding. Wow! It would certainly be memorable.

Of all the alternative wedding ideas we’re featuring, this could be the most controversial! As there may be some guests who are not too keen on being kept in the dark. However, we all know who those people are in our friendship group, or family. So, either live with their disappointment at not being involved, or create a little surprise wedding planning gang, and let them help you create the big day.

Guest books are a lovely keepsake, and a sweet way for friends and family to share their thoughts on your wedding day. However, there’s no reason for it to actually be a book. It could be (almost) anything. And at any nontraditional wedding these days, you’ll find that couples have thought of some pretty creative ways for guests to leave a note.

Here’s 5 quick DIY guest book ideas we’re loving right now.

1. Guest book quilt. Guests write their notes on a patch of material. Following the wedding, someone who’s good with a sewing machine can then join all the patches together to create a charming quilt.
2. Polaroids. Each guest who wants to sign your book needs to take a picture of themselves, and then write their note either on the back, or at the bottom of the Polaroid.
3. Globe. The guest book is a globe, guests choose a place on the map where they would like to leave a message. Could also act as a source for travel recommendations.
4. A Puzzle. Who didn’t get into puzzles during lockdown?! Well, with a puzzle guest book, you can spend a joyous first anniversary, taking a walk down memory lane. With a puzzle that holds so much more meaning than that one of a kitten sitting in a wellington boot you struggled to complete last year.
5. The Welcome Sign. Why not combine both guest book and entrance signage, and have your loved ones write all over the welcome sign! It will save money on stationery and create a lovely piece of decor.

Every man and their dog is an expert at chatting over Zoom these days. Ok, we’re certainly doing less quizzes, but how many of you are still holding meetings via video stream? Plenty, we’re certain. And it has helped all of us to keep connected to those relatives and friends who are scattered across the country, and the world. Loved ones who may find it difficult to be a part of your wedding party IRL.

Alongside those who live far away, you may also have older relatives who would not feel comfortable attending a wedding at this time. Help these guests, and anyone who can’t physically attend your wedding day, by streaming it online. There are multiple livestreaming companies in the UK who will professionally film, and broadcast your celebration. Or, if the budget is tight, allocate a steady handed guest the task of streaming the event via their phone, or camera. It’ll certainly help to bring everyone together, and mean grandma doesn’t have to fork out for another hat!

Traditionally, during a ceremony, wedding guests sit in lines facing an altar. Nothing wrong with that. But we’re here to talk about alternative wedding ideas, so let’s mix it up! Why not, seat your guests in the round, like at the theatre. You’ll be standing in the middle, with all your loved ones surrounding you. It would certainly feel more intimate.

For many couples, the thought of fully eloping somewhere far-flung and secretive is exciting, but also daunting. It can seem tempting to ditch all the complicated wedding planning, and run away together. But often, the wedding day is about more than just a marriage license. It’s about close family, friends you’ve grown up with, and loved ones sharing the biggest day with you. Therefore, it can be hard to ditch the whole concept completely. So, don’t.

Instead, keep your wedding ceremony just for you and your partner. Arrange a simple ceremony somewhere special to you, and either bring along two VIPs as witnesses. Or grab two willing victims off the street for a very exclusive, and intimate ceremony. Then, once you’ve exchanged your vows, you can join the full wedding party, and celebrate together! It doesn’t even have to be on the same day. If you really want to indulge in some quality time with one another, make a long weekend of it. Tie the knot on the Friday, host the wedding reception on the Saturday and leave for your honeymoon on the Sunday!

Not all flower girls have to be under 9, and wear a pretty little dress. In fact, you could have your beloved pet performing this sacred duty. Or grandma? How sweet would grandma look walking down the aisle, chucking petals as she went! You may also have that friend who always wanted that job as a kid, but never got it… Now’s your chance to fulfil their lifelong ambition, and make them your grown-up flower girl.

Jumping the broomstick. Tying the knot. Sand Pouring. These are all traditional ceremony rituals, and each of which could be used to give your wedding a unique feel. Your guests would certainly not expect to see such an ancient ritual take place during a modern wedding, and it will give your alternative wedding a romantic twist. As many of these older ceremonies are deeply emotional, and connecting tasks that bring couples closer together. Emotionally, spiritually and physically.

Our personal favourite, when it comes to ceremony rituals, is tree planting. As you can imagine, this involves planting a tree, and it can either be done during your ceremony, or after. It’s a sweet way to represent your love story, while also giving something back to the earth in the process.

The invites and save-the-dates are the first thing your guests will engage with when it comes to your wedding. They set the tone for the whole celebrations, and their style offers a tantalizing glimpse of what’s to come. For this reason, it’s important you consider carefully how they are presented.

If you’re hoping to show off how special this wedding will be, then why not create something utterly unique. Something made by your own fair hands. Not creative? Not good at arts and crafts? Don’t worry, we’ve put together 15 Creative DIY Wedding Invitations Ideas for you, complete with simple instructions!

Some members of your wedding party may groan at the idea of games, or activities during a wedding reception. But for anyone with a childlike sense of fun, or for those who have witnessed a real wedding abroad. You will know what a galvanizing experience the right games can bring to a wedding venue full of people who may not already know each other.

Nerve wracking events such as the speeches, or the first dance soon become a lot easier when you feel that the whole room has become a lot more connected. And sometimes, all it takes is a few rounds of giant Jenga and the spectacle of the ‘newly-wed game‘!

The first step when planning any wedding, is booking your venue. It comes well before saying yes to your white wedding dress, and just after selecting your wedding date. It’s a vital task that impacts every other decision you wish to make concerning your nuptials. Not only that, your wedding venue is the physical backdrop for your celebrations. Therefore, its style and ambiance need to reflect the occasion.

Many venues already come equipped with a style and decor already in place, making it difficult to go wild with your alternative wedding ideas. That’s why our team have put together this list of 15 DIY Wedding Venues for 2022. A shortlist of colourful wedding venues in the UK that will welcome your crazy ideas, and be more than happy to help you put together a wedding in a more creative way.

Don’t settle for the standard menu offered by a venue, or caterer. Think about what your guests would actually want, and what will create an experience for them. We’re not talking Heston Blumenthal, more like, the creation of little moments during the reception meal. Thinking beyond the three courses. Maybe the food is served by performers? Maybe each dish holds some sentimental value? Or maybe, you’re a huge Star Wars fan, and you want the canapés to be served by Storm Troopers…!

Consider something that represents you, and that you think your guests will get a kick out of. Even if it’s just having food trucks, instead of table numbers and a plated service. What will make your loved ones walk away thinking, that was pretty special!

If the thought of arriving by limo, or sleek Rolls-Royce to your wedding feels a little cliché, or not really you. Why not consider an entrance that’s a little more, unforgettable?

You’ll certainly turn some heads if you arrive by Harley-Davidson! Or you’re whisked off to your honeymoon by the number 39 bus. Our rule, as long as you can get your wedding gown on it, it’s suitable as wedding transportation!

Your bridesmaids may already know that they’re chosen. You discussed it in the playground, talked about it during work experience and really nailed down their role while at university. But whether your bridal squad know or not, they still deserve ‘a moment’. A champagne popping surprise of a proposal that really kicks off the journey to the altar.

This ‘surprise’ could come in the form of a gift delivered to their door, or in person during drinks. Think of something fun, yet personal that will inspire the whole gang to get behind you, and support you.

If you’re struggling with ideas, we’ve rounded up our Favourite ‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid?’ Gifts that should help you choose the perfect something.

At present, a celebrant in the UK cannot legally marry you. However, by legally marrying the day before your wedding, and having a celebrant on the special day, you’ll be opening yourselves up to a world of personalization. Free from any boring legal stuff, you and your celebrant can dream up whatever type of service you want.

Celebrants in the UK are often experts in ancient rituals, and can perform ceremonial tasks that align with spiritual beliefs. Making them ideal for creating a wedding moment that is unique to you, and feels much more than your average.

If you’re anything like us, you’re never further than 2 feet from your phone at all times. This is probably the norm, and it’s not always healthy.

On your wedding day, why not (heavily) suggest that your guests take a break from their devices, and embrace the feeling of freedom. You’ll be amazed at how much more engaged your loved ones are in the events of the day, when they’re not reaching for their iPhone every 2 minutes to check their emails. Besides, you paid a fortune to have a professional wedding photographer capture the whole day. You don’t need their blurry snaps!

Be sure to set up a safe place for guests to leave their phone during the day, possibly being charged, and certainly easy to find.