The Cutest Ways To Ask ‘Will You Be My Bridesmaid?’

I promise I won’t make you wear an ugly dress card, £2, Sweetheartfoils on Etsy

Have a bit of a giggle with your bridesmaid proposal with a funny card like this one, which promises to not put your friend in an ugly dress, which is every bridesmaid’s biggest fear!

Bridesmaid request card, £3.45, Dandypug at Etsy

If your bestie knows she’s always been on the cards for a role as maid of honour or bridesmaid you might want to acknowledge that fact with this fun card.

Funny card, £3.50, wordplaydesign.co.uk

This card is a fun way to ask your bestie to become your bridesmaid. If you have a jokey relationship with her she’ll find this card a hoot.

Minimalist modern photo card, £2.35, Zazzle

Choose a favourite photo of the two of you, (yes we know this might take hours!) and then use that to create a lovely personalised card to act as your bridesmaid proposal.

Bridesmaid greeting card, £3.50, Bow & Arrow Press at Papier

We love this cute illustrated card from Papier, which is a smart choice for a bridesmaid card. You can personalise the inside of the card too.

Pack of six bridesmaid proposal cards, £4, Paperchase

You can find a pretty bridesmaid card on the high street as well as online, and fab stationers Paperchase have this smart rustic option that will work perfectly for your bridesmaid proposal.

Will you be my bridesmaid balloon, £19.99, The Party Company

Send your bridesmaid-to-be a big box with a surprise helium balloon inside that’ll float out to reveal the question you’ve been dying to ask. It’s a really fun and inventive way to ask her to be in your bridal party.

Perfect pouch, £14.99, Katie Loxton

A beautiful bridesmaid pouch from Katie Loxton is a chic way to ask your friend to be your bridesmaid and she can even use it on the big day itself to keep important things like lipstick and plasters in for you!

Personalised Wooden Wine Gift Box, £19.99, Wedding Star

Looking for creative ways to say cheers to your best girls? How about sending a lovely wooden box containing their favourite wine, with the message etched onto the front of the box?

Will you be my bridesmaid gift biscuits, from £22, Honeywell Biscuit Co.

How pretty are these biscuits? Almost too good to eat you might say. Having your message to your friend written on a biscuit is an ingenious and tasty way to pop the question.

Secret message mug, £16, The Letter Loft

Invite your bridesmaid-to-be over for a cuppa and serve hers in this cool mug which has a hidden message at the bottom with the all important ‘will you be my bridesmaid?’ question! It’s such a fun and unexpected way for her to receive the good news that she’s part of your bridal party.

Rose gold personalised wine label, £3.40, Peachy Prints Uk on Etsy

If you always get together with your best girl over a bottle of wine then a personalised wine label can be a really fun way to ask her to be your maid. Choose her favourite bottle of wine and then order a pretty personalised wine label to stick on it et voilà… the perfect bridesmaid proposal.

‘I Couldn’t Tie The Knot Without You’ Bridesmaid Bangle, £20, Junk Jewels at Not on the High Street

Something that your maid can also wear on the wedding day is a great idea for a bridesmaid proposal gift. A necklace or bracelet that’ll look lovely with her bridesmaid dress will work perfectly, and there are plenty of options that come with packaging that ask the important question!

Scented candle, £16, Kindred Fires

If your best mate lights up your life, let her know with a bridesmaid proposal that is flaming good! Plus, everyone loves a scented candle for their home and it’ll remind her throughout the planning journey how special it is to be your maid.

Will You Be My Maid Of Honour Personalised Gift Box, £19.99, Team Hen at Not on the High Street

This gift box will be a real treat for any bridesmaid and looks seriously chic and bridal. Inside your maid-to-be will find a ‘will you be my bridesmaid?’ card, a hen party planning notebook, a chocolate bar, a diamanté pen, a hair tie and a lapel pin. We reckon she’ll get what you’re asking when she unwraps that little lot.

Will you be my bridesmaid box, £70, Build My Gift

If you want a bit more say about what goes inside your bridesmaids’ gift box then this is the one for you. Build My Gift gives you the option to choose from a selection of pretty cards, and then there’s a lot of pretty gifts to add too.

Bridesmaid Proposal Thank You Personalised Gift Box, £12, Design by Eleven at Not on the High Street

This box can be personalised with your bridesmaid’s name, so will make a lovely keepsake for her once she’s enjoyed all the goodies inside. Just imagine her excitement when she she’s such a personalised gift coming her way!

Personalised Be My Bridesmaid Gift Box, £14.95, Dibor at Not on the High Street

Keep the suspense going with this box which reveals its message under the lid with a lovely ‘Please will you be my bridesmaid?’ message. Your soon-to-be maid will also love all the cute gifts you choose to fill it with.

Personalised Will You Be My Bridesmaid Gift Box, £16.95, Milly Inspired at Not on the High Street

Recruit your bestie to ‘Team Bride’ with this elegant box that includes a necklace, a planning notebook, a sweet treat a scented candle and a notebook. Everything you need to win her over to the bridal party!

‘Box Of Delights’ Luxury Gift Box For Her, £45, Twinkleboxco at Not on the High Street

Treat your besties to a special box of treats that she’ll be able to use during the wedding planning process to look and feel her very best as a bridesmaid. This box includes lovely beauty produces and sweet treats and is a really lovely way to start your journey together to the aisle.

Personalised vibrant flower frame bridesmaid box, £34.95, Prezzybox

This is a beautiful box that you can fill with your own contents and make as personalised as you like for each individual maid. This design is super cute and your maids can use it for a long time after the big day itself.