Because They’re Family Too: Including Your Pet In Your Wedding Day
Long before the seating plan takes shape, most couples already know who they couldn’t imagine the day without. Family, close friends… and the pet who’s been there through the highs, lows and all the ordinary moments in between. From muddy walks to sofa cuddles, they’re part of daily life – so it makes sense that when couples plan a wedding that reflects who they are, the question of including their pet quickly follows.
Pet-friendly weddings aren’t about novelty or gimmicks. They’re about meaning. Your dog walking down the aisle, your cat appearing in portraits, or simply being nearby for the moments that matter most can add a layer of familiarity and comfort that no styling trend ever could. But as lovely as the idea is, it’s also one that benefits from a little thought and planning. Like most things wedding related, the magic comes when heart and logistics work together.
Why couples are choosing to include their pets
For many couples, pets are constant companions – often long before an engagement ring enters the picture. They’ve been there for first homes, job changes, big life decisions and quiet routines. Including them on your wedding day can feel less like a choice and more like the obvious move.
There’s also something wonderfully grounding about having your pet involved. Weddings can be emotional, busy and full-on. Seeing a familiar face (or wagging tail) can be calming, especially during moments like the ceremony or portraits. And, of course, the photos. Few things bring out genuine smiles quite like a dog who has no idea they’re meant to be posing.
The pros (and how to make the most of them)
It makes the day feel more personal.
Pets instantly make a wedding feel less staged and more real. Whether they’re part of the ceremony or simply there for a few key moments, their presence adds personality and warmth.
They help create natural, relaxed moments.
Some of the most beautiful wedding photos come from unplanned interactions – a dog leaning into their owners, a spontaneous cuddle, a moment of calm before the ceremony begins.
They reflect real life, not just the occasion.
A wedding isn’t a standalone moment. Including your pet is a reminder that this day is part of a much bigger life you’re building together.
The cons (and the simple solutions)
Of course, including a pet isn’t without its considerations, but most potential challenges are easily solved with the right planning and venue choice.
“It’ll be stressful having to look after them.”
This is one of the biggest worries couples have – and understandably so. The solution? Don’t try to do it yourselves. Many couples ask a trusted friend, family member or professional dog sitter to be on pet duty for the day. Some venues are also experienced with pets on site and can advise on how best to manage timings so your pet is involved without being overwhelmed.
“What if they get nervous or overstimulated?”
Not every pet needs to be present all day. In fact, many couples choose to include their pet just for the ceremony or photos, before letting them go and relax. Quiet spaces, outdoor areas and flexible schedules make this much easier – which is why choosing the right venue matters so much.
“Venues don’t always allow pets.”
This is where early research pays off. Some venues allow pets in theory but aren’t truly set up for them. Others have clear, sensible guidelines that make the experience smoother for everyone. For example, venues that allow dogs for ceremonies and photographs, but keep food service areas pet-free, strike a good balance between inclusion and practicality.
“What about overnight stays?”
If staying over is important, check accommodation policies early. Some venues offer limited pet-friendly rooms with an additional cleaning fee, which is usually well worth it for peace of mind. Planning this in advance avoids last-minute stress and ensures everyone is comfortable.
Choosing a venue that genuinely supports pet-friendly weddings
The venue you choose can make or break how smoothly including a pet works. Look for spaces that feel calm rather than restrictive, with outdoor areas that allow pets to stretch their legs and step away from the busier parts of the day.
Froyle Park is a great example of how this can work thoughtfully. Dogs are welcome on site for ceremonies and photographs, allowing couples to include them in the most meaningful moments, while keeping food service areas pet-free for obvious practical reasons. There’s also a dedicated apartment where guests can stay with a dog overnight, which can make logistics far simpler for couples travelling with their pet.
What works particularly well in settings like this is clarity. Knowing exactly where pets are welcome, when they can be involved, and how the day can be structured around them removes uncertainty and allows couples to relax and enjoy the experience.
Small touches that make a big difference
Including your pet doesn’t have to mean making them the centre of attention. Sometimes it’s the quieter details that feel the most special:
Bringing them in for pre-ceremony photos
Letting them walk with you for part of the aisle
Including them in couple portraits before guests arrive
Having them nearby during morning preparations
These moments often feel more meaningful than asking a pet to be ‘on duty’ all day long.
Final thoughts
At its heart, a wedding is about celebrating the life you’ve built together – not just the formalities of one day. For many couples, that life will include a pet who’s been there through the everyday moments that matter just as much as the big milestones.
With thoughtful planning, realistic expectations and a venue that genuinely understands what pet-friendly means, including your pet can feel effortless rather than stressful. It’s not about doing more, it’s about making the day feel like yours, from the people you love to the companions who never leave your side.