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Cain Manor

The feel

Cain Manor is a magnificent Elizabethan manor house with a spectacular banqueting hall, accompanied by homely drawing rooms with open fires, 11 luxury bedrooms and beautiful gardens with commanding views over the Surrey countryside. Spend your exclusive day ‘at home’ at Cain Manor in the house and beautiful grounds. As with all Harper Wedding Venues, genuinely unrivalled quality and attention to detail come as standard.

Ceremony capacity: 123

Banqueting capacity: 123

Evening reception capacity: 170

Harper Weddings own and manage a collection of historic venues 30 – 90 minutes from London that can be exclusively yours for 24 hours. Combining historic splendour with the latest in 21st-century style, every distinctive property delivers the ultimate ‘at home’ wedding. Sublime 5 star banqueting, discreet professional service and luxury accommodation all brought together in glorious surroundings under the Harper team’s impeccable management. The ultimate wedding exclusively yours by Harper Weddings.

Visiting Cain Manor

We know that many of you are eager to come and see our venues (thank you!) and we will do our very best to ensure you are given an appointment on your preferred day and time.

Please email us at [email protected] or call us on 0345 130 9966 to book your virtual tour, or in-person appointment.


Alcohol License
Car Parking
Church Nearby
Civil Licence
DJ Facilities
Entertainment License
Evening Reception Facilities
Exclusive Use
Live Band Facilities
Onsite Catering
Virtual Tour
123 capacity


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Penny & Dave

13 Oct 2019

Penny and I had a fantastic day, and we would very much like to thank all of your staff for helping us plan the event and in particular all of…

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Leigh & Zeth

10 Aug 2019

I just wanted to say thank you so much to all of you for helping with my wedding planning, answering numerous questions that I would fire at you and to…

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Natalie Turner

8 Aug 2019

DJ was great. He played a good proportion of our requests and many of our guests have commented that he played their requests on the night straight away too. Our…

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8 Aug 2019

Just a quick email to say thank you to all the team at Bijou (huge thanks to Dean). Our day was incredibly special and we are all still on cloud…

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Mr & Mrs Chappell

4 Aug 2019

On Monday we had the pleasure of celebrating our daughter’s wedding at Cain Manor. It is a beautiful venue many of our guests commented on how lovely it is. For…

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Simrit & Shobhit

30 Jul 2019

Dear Maddie, Thank you so much again for your message. After Sunday, we are extremely grateful to you and the entire Bijou team for helping to make the wedding such…

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Rachel and Luke

27 Jul 2019

Dear Ann, Dean, Louise & Jon, We wanted to pass on our thanks to you all for making our wedding day run seamlessly. Everyone was very helpful, polite and attentive.…

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Melanie & Will

26 Jul 2019

Dear Bijou, We would like to thank everyone who was a part of our special day at Cain Manor on Thursday 26th July. The day ran incredibly smoothly and we…

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Joanna & Adam

23 Jul 2019

We had a perfect day and cannot thank everyone at Cain Manor for making our wedding so very special. We are currently in Paris on our mini moon and it’s…

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Hayley & Ed

22 Jul 2019

Dear Bijou, Thank you for giving us a wonderful wedding day we will never forget.

Karen and Steve

6 Jul 2019

Hi Ann, Thanks to you and your team for a brilliant day last week at Cain Manor, we had such a magical day, your team looked after us so well,…

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Father of the Bride

20 Oct 2018

My daughter Gabrielle’s wedding at Cain Manor on Saturday was simply fantastic and I can’t thank your brilliant staff enough for what they did to make it such a special…

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Lee & Louise

8 Sep 2018

I just wanted to say a quick thank you to you and your amazing team for making our day so special with the personal and intimate feel that we wanted.…

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Sally & Jake

7 Sep 2018

We just wanted to thank all the staff at Cain Manor (particularly Siena) for being so attentive and ensuring our Wedding Day ran smoothly. It was a huge success, Jake…

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Suzanne and Iain

30 Aug 2018

From start to finish we received first class service from all involved. Jennifer was brilliant when responding to our questions and helping plan our day. Dean was very helpful when…

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Charlotte and Josh

7 Jul 2018

First of all, we would like to say a massive thank you to all of you at Bijou, both from the online support to those working on the day (Ella…

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Stephanie & Craig

30 May 2018

Dear all at Cain Manor, Thank you so much for making our wedding day so special, for being attentive to each and every one of us throughout the day and…

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Caroline & Hamish

1 Apr 2018

Our wedding day was simply perfect and we were thrilled we chose Cain Manor as our venue. Everything ran so smoothly, thanks to the brilliant Dean and Rachel, and so…

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Is your venue licensed for both indoor and outdoor ceremonies?
Their oak-beamed barn-style Music Room can comfortably accommodate 123 guests for a sit-down reception. The landscaped grounds are ideal for a summer canapé reception with impressive views overlooking Surrey’s Golden Valley. In more inclement weather, the Library and Drawing Room will make for the cosiest of backgrounds to your winter wedding.
How many can you accommodate for dining?
Cain Manor offers a Banqueting Hall seating capacity of 123 guests.
Does your venue offer accommodation?
Cain Manor offers a spacious bridal suite and 10 further luxurious bedroom for your closest family and friends.

Late availability, offers & events



Cain Manor 2024 offer Harper Weddings has released a limited amount of dates available for…


Cain Manor
Churt Road
Headley Down
Home Counties
GU35 8SR

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